You want to be happy?!

You want to be happy?!, Don't listen to any media anymore, turn off your tv set, shut down your cell phones, your computers, look around you, there is an environment, nature, there are people, everything is fine, forget your prejudices, your mental concepts, begin to accept, to respect, to love, this environment, these persons, there is nothing to add to this moment to find happiness, life is simple, let life be.

In a moment where people are having fun, i'm watching instructive films..... ; soon it will be my turn.

Un-controled, un-reasonned, mis-understood emotions are a plague of humanity. And everything around you in modern societies tries to push you over that border. Books, films, tv shows, news, advertising, any media, they are toying with you, because un-reasonned emotions lead to mass consumption, it leads to conflicts and dramas too; wake up!!!!

I'm naive

Today someone told me that women don't care if a man past thirty has a little belly, or kind of a flabby chest. First i started to feel depreciated and that having a natural flat belly wasn't an advantage at that age. But then i questioned why women wouldn't care about that in a partner?, let's say probably because a man with a beer belly at age thirty is the norm and women are used to meet such men around that age. So i realized i'm a rare case, and i pumped my self confidence back, because i'm not the norm, because i'm rare that makes me even more special and a wonder to get, i'm a middle aged man with the body of a dynamic twenty something man.

Do women really give no credit for good health in middle aged men? Is it all looks, money, and attitude?

(Isn't this true for everybody?, but some people aren't just aware of that power in them.)

When you'll have full confidence in yourself, you'll be one of the most wonderful person to be around to. Because you have an ability to dispense energy, now it's on you to make it only positive. And there are a lot of people like that. This is something i believe in.

A pinch of philosophy, food to think, only because we lost the sense of who we are, to be happy one must not be identified to his thoughts, in fact we shouldn't use our brains:

Be you learning, or playing, or working, it's only spending your time. Truth is the only thing we really want, the true sense of life for everyone is inner peace, and this goes through a psychological comprehension for a return to being, everything else is not serious, everything else is filling up and finaly has no importance, because no incidence on who we are, it's for everyone to choose, but the serenity of being in each one of us is already there, immutable, infinite, immortal, we simply must allow ourselves to see the path that leads there.

“There is no beauty in sadness. No honor in suffering. No growth in fear. No relief in hate. It’s just a waste of perfectly good happiness.”

I think, everyone is free to make one's own choices, but to make choices in harmony with who we are and our personal values we have to know and be aware of every piece of information, of every factor in a set situation, or in a concept (in addition to knowing oneself).

Who controls these factors by their diffusion, the secret, or the transformation, can, in a certain way, control people's behaviors.

Morality, if you want to be true and choose what is best for you (in the goal to be happy) then you should inform yourself, you should dig out information to get closer and closer to the truth behind everything, just educate yourself.

The "small(s)" have ideas, and the "big(s)" buy those ideas back, to make profits.
Morality : the "small(s)" stay small, and the "big(s)" get even richer,  and they keep the power.

Call that a Sick Sad World.

Here's a thought to ponder :

Behind every problem, behind every suffering in this world there is human greediness, because the one getting richer (or wanting to add to what he thinks he is) do it to the detriment of someone or something else, and the one functioning on his mental (through the ego) will never be satisfied.

When i play the guitar like tonight i feel i want to say "I love you" to everyone!

(Maybe this is why i play the guitar, to connect with others and say "I love you")

Fragment of belief about the importance of what's stored in us

 Everything that is potentially forgetable has no importance, because that can be learnt back again anytime through a positive desire.

(So almost everything is superficial, acquiring a knowledge, learning an ability, loving something or someone. and of course objects are unimportant cause they don't last and it's known that if you want to feel satisfied seek for something that last, the power is in your being, fear brings separation. Love for everything that is can last forever if you decide it because it's generated from within yourself, it's endless.)

So the only thing really important, that we must merge with each thought, and smudge over each action we take, is that path to a desire, a momentum, positive and respectful, always.

It's a state of Being in love and positiveness that will ooze out of us, surround us and make everything good, beautiful, and respectable. (You can't do bad actions when in that state, just condemn the actions with bad energy that everyone does once in a while but respect the Being of everything and everyone.)

(and if you still don't know what "positive and respectful" means, just don't hurt anyone and anything, be sincere and transparent, ask yourself how you feel and ask others how they feel, and act so no one is hurt. Make this the base of your moral and values toward actions.)



This is just a piece of belief i'm working my mind with. Does that make sense??

I sincerely hope you are happy, and that you'll find what you miss, first mentally and then that you'll be able to reach and get it. It's just too bad for me i'm not a part of it, but that's how it is, i accept it, to have an interaction, a relation with someone you have to know what you want and declare it, and then respect the other's voice, need, answer, adjust both desires, and if there's no ground for compromise, construction, and evolution, then learn to let go. Sometimes the timing is wrong, sometimes the setting is wrong, with a little change of point of view, over time, a little change of context, a new relation, different and peaceful, can be born between two people that wasn't possible at one time. Stay positive!