Conception of carnal love

"I remembered the moments spent with Ewka.
As I treat her with gentleness. My gestures were just fondling. My hands, my mouth, my tongue gently roamed his skin, as sons of the Virgin floating in the warm air of a calm summer evening. I was looking, without getting tired, for all the sensitive areas of her body, which awake by my grazing, as the sun's rays rekindle the butterfly numbed by the cold wind of the night. What care I put to release in her the desires and shivers which, without me, will be still asleep in their prison! I only wished her own pleasure. "

Jerzy KOSINSKI, The painted bird

Main Theory : Typical Example of Conditioning

Funny how sometimes we confuse hot with cold; ex : by putting his finger on a food that comes out of the freezer and that you begin to cook in a pan, we can feel, wrapping our hands, the heat who comes from the pan but the food is still frozen so the tip of the finger put on it feels coldness, but we nevertheless remove our hand swiftly because several clues would have fooled our brain (the hot pan, the fact that we believe that the food was being heated, a reference to heat simply because of something to cook, heat connotation associated with the stove);
This action is typically due to the conditioning of our brain, since our childhood we are told to be careful not to burn in the kitchen, or even if we have already burned ourselves and integrate in our brain that it was painful, the fear of burns has been developed.
Here is a typical example of domestic and unconscious conditioning. Everything that we are was influenced exactly the same way, as well what we love, and what we fear (our fears, our tastes, our inclinations to each other, absolutely everything was built for a part this way, plus a part of genetic, I'm convinced of that!)

No Hazard

Hazard is an assembly of facts which have an explanation and coming together at the same time, weaving a complex web that leads to an event (a context made of facts where each one are also the result of a context and so on back to the source of each fact), we can try to find out the facts that lead to an event so that it runs in our favor (the entanglement of certain event is so complex that it is obviously impossible to check out all the facts, but i like to try it out through reasoning and logic).
The hazard is what is unexpected, if we know how to analyze a situation, we can control it, to some extent.

Example in the concentration for learning

When I eat while watching a film I feel that my concentration is divided between these two things and I do not obtain all the informations that I could; Once again if we really want an effective learning of an ability or some knowledge, all our senses must be focused on a single task at a specific moment, during the maximum time that we can keep our concentration.
I think we can not focus on two things at once, our brain juggles focusing alternately on one thing; when you do several things at the same time as in this example, it creates breaks in the understanding and learning of each task, the perception and therefore the recording of informations is therefore not optimum.

Choose our Impression

We attach impressions and even emotions on the most elementary forms that we can see (round equal soft, harmless, nice and a peak, a triangle equal aggressiveness, danger, pain, risk of injury again due to our conditioning throughout this life, as well as experiences : we may have been injured on a sharp object and rested comfortably on a smooth rounded pillow) so even when we want to create an object totally new, we work on his form in order to match with the impression that we want to inspire to others when they see it.
I think it is always possible to be conditioned in a way where bad feelings aren't attached to usual objects, sharp objects for example, or by an individual reasoning, relativize for a better understanding of this world around us and fight and get rid of our useless fears. (watch the sharp teeth of the big bad wolf) (conf : the way of the samourai)
The idea of getting rid of my fears by the reason pleases me, it's a re-conditioning for his own well being.
It is important to believe because it is possible!
(I know that the emotion we name "fear" serve to preserve us, but how much irrational "fear" do we have, that prevent us from going forward, evolving and only benefiting for some large corporations)

Adaptability of human mind

One always finds his happiness somewhere, we know we will not be able to travel, see breathtaking landscapes or to pay for luxury items, but our intellect adapts himself to his "condition" and we always discover bits of pleasure to support this life.
We learn to love the possibilities offered to our character by the environment in which we live. (our body condition himself to make the best with what he has and appreciate it as much as he can because obviously we are constantly assaulted by surrounding messages against the "values" that we have forged; according to the character we have developed we learn to love what we can get and what we have.)
Redundant part with other articles just to make the link between our tastes, what we like and our emotions : why are we developing tastes for certain things and dislikes for others? what we love must necessarily be linked once again to our education, our experiences ... etc and is again due to our conditioning facing our environment .... I ramble on ... one day all will become clear. Our emotions determine our tastes, if our emotions are the result of our conditioning our tastes are too, it's stupid but logical, and ultimately exactly the same as what I wrote in previous articles. We love by reaction against something who hurt us (we love by absence?!, we love by conditionning, we love by habit).