Theory try

Point de conditionnement : La beauté que l'on voit chez les autres est en reflet de ce que l'on pense de soi même.

Trait of conditioning : The beauty we see in others is a reflect of what we think of ourselves.


For example, my sister gives much importance to the face of the guys, particularly the eyes, she likes colored eyes, because that's a point she likes in herself too, her green eyes being obviously a seductive asset for her, but she's not too much concerned about the size of the body (well in reasonable proportion, my sister is very tough and difficult about others' appearance, just because she's probably greatly insecure in herself), because she's insecure with her body, being conscious that she doesn't have the silhouette displayed in magazines (though being very well proportioned), i think that's why she jumps on my case very often to say that i'm too slender, my body makes her self conscious of the size of her own body, which like i said she's not so much confident with, so she discredits what could be seen as fit and a norm of beauty just to reassure herself.

I myself for example like thin bodies because that's something i like in me first (for reasons i can explain about not over consuming anything as a core value), then also i like colored eyes on others because that's something i don't like in me, the color of my eyes being the plain and widespread brownish one, and i prefer originality above commonplace perceptions.

So about beauty everything that we assess is probably projected on us first, but rememeber that it's the mind, the thought, the ego, controlling that harsh conditioning, and a way to live out of thoughts is possible, to be much happier and more respectful, and see beauty everywhere without it burdening our own sense of self.