I think that finding the right person, which means sticking faithfully to one person, is being with the one that makes you feel satisfied, satisfied, litteraly satisfied, emotionally, sexually, sensually, mentally, intellectually, satisfied, and when satisfied with someone we completely don't need the others, that's my reasoning, maybe too romantic, too utopian, who knows, maybe it requires faith too, believing into the person and oneself, nothing is perfect, no relation can be perfect, at least in the course of time will occur probably some lows and it's for the two persons to keep the desire alive, to support each other, that can't be made alone, not sanely, the two have to be involved, and if love is here, love as motivation, a true desire, then satisfaction is reachable, being satisfied in a relationship is for me the key word, if we feel that way we naturally seek nothing elsewhere, all is in our hands, can a situation like that last yeah that's the question, it will take a strong and honest communication for satisfaction to stay steady, always present between two persons.
I can picture that idealistic state but i don't know if it's just a myth.
And maybe yeah the healthier way is to get here and there, taking from different people to have our personal satisfaction, feel satisfied, that is seeing things considering a single person, to keep independence, to stay one and theoretically free, we will still need others, either we see all we need in one or we take a little in several persons, i guess we could find happiness that way too, in the first description trust, faith must be here, strong, it's making two one, in the second, more egoistic, the person thinks primarily about fulfilling his personal needs, but i think in the two it must stay natural, without forcing his nature, if we stay true and honest we'll know when we are satisfied or not, then we can speak up and act.
If satisfaction isn't here then the need for something, someone else appears.
I'm sure my passionate temper pushes me to believe, and maybe that's what love requires : Passion!
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