You can make love to anybody, and physically, mechanically, substantially it will be good, with anybody. But psychologically, lastingly beyond in the realm of emotions, you can't be pleased if you don't love. Do people really know what it is to love, and do they really want it.
(my guess it is true for every primal pleasure)
(through sex, through food, through sleep)
I demystify the body and the bodily desires!
Absolute is a stone. "Would you help me to carry that stone".
I think mostly, people just want to be wanted. When a man shows a woman he desires her sexually, it raises her confidence in her physical appearance. When a woman desires a man, probably it makes him feel beautiful too. That's purely physical. I think a lot of people hang out at bars and spend their free time attracting strangers because they simple want to feel wanted. But naturally, only physical isn't enough so people either invest their time finding a real connection or looking for the next playmate.
RépondreSupprimeryeah but if they were thinking a bit farther they'll guess : is being wanted only for your body a source to lift the ego?, realizing that finally you or another one it will be the same, that it's only to pass a horny desire, to me it's not a bid deal, honnestly if the two (or more) persons define first what will be the relation i've got no problem with that, sexual intercourses are needed only to give a ponctual pleasure, and it's natural, just let's be honest, but really someone who is wanted only for his body shouldn't feel empowered in any way, it's playing with a sex toy, almost totally impersonal, so i'm ok with any behavior but people should be less prudish and more honnest with what they expect of a relation, and sincere enough to disclose their true feelings, if there is any, because i begin to believe people are mainly unaware about what is feeling, most are more like machines activated with an on/off button, i'm glad i differentiate myself from that functioning, i know clearly where i stand, i can choose to either lend my body, or my mind, or the two combined, i'm able to give any kind of love in the greatest ways imaginable. (materialism is not loving up to me, but creations of piece of you can be offered in objects i agree)
RépondreSupprimerbid deal = big deal
RépondreSupprimercreations of piece of you = creations or pieces of you
Maybe you're right, maybe most people are as predictable as a robot because they buy into all the stereotypes and strive to achieve some level of happiness that has been beaten into their minds since they were young. Maybe that's why when people lose their looks and their professions they get depressed, because then they are forced to START thinking about what they really feel inside and it's all very sad.
RépondreSupprimerIt's better to build yourself on things that have more force, more perennity, because yeah youth don't last, the body invariably withers, and finally you can lose a job anytime, that's why personally i work on giving strenght and value to what is my personal philosophy, the one who makes who i am truly.
RépondreSupprimerI don't want to seem pedantic but most people aren't aware of the thoughts, the needs, the desires controling their actions, so they put themselves in a lot of troubled situations in order to learn, and that can be a way to learn, well if they really think about it afterwards, but are they really?! anyway i just think bluntly that most people don't know what is really feeling with all of what they are, so most scramble in their life to reach any kind of satisfaction.
Personally i still struggle with the confidence about my body, that's almost the only flaw, but i work on that, this afternoon was helping, i let my friend practice a massage on me. It shows that i'm pretty strong now.
I can honestly say you are in tune with yourself more than anyone I've ever met, seen, or read about.
RépondreSupprimerI think people with more confidence can appear more reckless, because they believe in themselves to change their lives whenever they feel like and discard whatever no longer pleases. (Like arrogant Jackie from the 70s Show eh)
Deep down I think everyone craves to feel a real love, which is a feeling that's not really proven with tangible things.
That's good you are improving your confidence. You deserve to experience the tangible pleasures, which clearly you have deprived yourself of for a long time.
Yeah i'm building all those tangible things now, and i've already got a strong theory, a sure knowledge of what is good for me, so i know where to search, where to look, and i'm not shy or troubled about any notions, i don't have taboos, i've mainly ideas on everything and it's good like that for me, i know what i want, and what i feel, and i'm a good judge of what others can give or not.
RépondreSupprimer(jackie is playing the strong girl but she's attached too inside and she'll cry i tell you, that's her façade)
(Jackie relies on her looks/sexuality to control others to give her what she wants. But yeah, she cries sometimes and that character has feelings hidden behind all that arrogance.)
RépondreSupprimerThat's being human! so instead of hiding it and pretend, it's so much easier to embrass it and to simply be what we are.
RépondreSupprimerpeople should be less prudish and more honnest with what they expect of a relation, and sincere enough to disclose their true feelings
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@ walkonawildside
ii like that one.
But tell me one thing .. since you are so sure of as to what yew want, do yew never trip ?
yew said one afternoon yew let a friend give yew a massage .. yew were strong because probably that friend was just a friend.
how about someone whom yew like, not to a greater extent, but yew still do like her. ?
and if yew do come across someone whom you're interested in but not to that intimate a level, how would yew know that you're not stubbornly holding onto your belief of being able to judge good what people have to offer ?