universal pep talk

Here's something i thought about, that is good for everybody, i think, eh :
you deserve what you like, so what you like must be the best for you. know what you like and don't settle on what is average and shallow for yourself.
Because you are judging yourself, not others, so you have the choice to feel fine with who you are right now, at every moment, and you also have the choice to be whoever you want to be, change who you are the more you learn about yourself, but in the end you always have the choice.
Live with a set of disguises usable to fit half empty situations or live as your real naked self, and enjoy it proudly, then so the situations will present naturally to you, ain't a tired souless chameleon anymore, but a bird in the freedom of air, space and multiple perches, with ever full manger.