making Enemies (but i keep cool, so i'm not the one making enemies, and i don't turn myself into an enemy)

"I once asked an old man: Which is more important? To love or to be loved?
He replied: Which is more important to a bird? The left or the right wing?"

    François Maye : I asked my old mom that, and she said for her it's more important to love, that is to have the ability to love, because no one can strip you of that, it's something that's inside you and that you produce infinitely, you can never be sure of others' feelings as you're not them, but you can trust what you feel and decide to love.
   
    Steph Dizzo : and that's why some people love unconditionally, regardless of the other person's feelings. however, at some point, these people can get hurt when they're not getting anything in return. But is THIS true love? When you love someone regardless of their feelings and without expecting anything back? Well, I think people see love differently, it's an unique experience for each individual.
   
    François Maye : For me true love is obviously the unconditional love, not the egoic love that is spread all around (where you expect someone to give you something or to be like you want), if you are hurt because you don't get anything in return that means it's egoic love, but i agree if you decide you love someone that doesn't love you back, it's a waste of energy, so it's better to love someone that can love you back, that way the feelings are growing on another level, and accept and respect the others, even those who can't love you, to spread positivity amongst humans, that's also why we have to speak out, say our positive feelings to others, to the one, regularly when we feel it, so there's no misunderstandings and we can keep a flame, and then accept the answer of the other, whatever it is, yes or no, if it's "no" just accept it and move on.
   
    Mio Black Amphetamine : interesting.. I wanna be stupid and happy too=P (I just saw the post and I know that it was posted yesterday, so don't judge/comment)
   
    Steph Dizzo ; Why stupid?
   
    Mio Black Amphetamine : because only stupid people think that if you love you have everything even when others hate you=P (just saying)
   
    Steph Dizzo : (smiley showing tongue)