Lesson, (with a life event)

Saturday morning, in a car with my brother, the radio is on, no talk, a song plays, then :

"I think it's an utterly idiotic song, nothing's good in this, it's just crap." he says peremptorily.

I stay silent, and i think :

(Why judging, why focusing on the negative, just turn off the radio if the song is really so unbearable, why not instead share me something like :

"Oh the other day i listened to a new song i liked a lot, let me tell you!...."

I didn't nourrish that negativity by adding to the criticism, i chose to stay conscious, to keep my inner smile, humans are so inclined to position themselves by criticizing while it's entirely unnecessary and that it hurts the bond we could weave between us all, and that process is so obvious in my own family, i want to overcome it and be a vector of a new consciousness, through positivity and acceptance, [no one's attacking you, so don't be defensive, and who you are is not in the forms, body, car, tv, song, individuals, or thoughts forms, nationality, beliefs, interests, father, mother, so don't feel offended, let people have their own opinions, and know your own, then see the world with care and acceptance.])

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(It's true too that i enjoy irony, dark and subversive humor, based on vehement observations and criticisms of this world, but i think that can be done without harm, without resentment, with the will to share and to connect with others, and with the consciousness that it's only jokes, and so it's not serious, just made to have fun, for example people can make cheerful jokes on rock music [which i'm fond of], but if it's said with openness and that obvious harmless tone, and also because i'm conscious and i don't identify to rock music [which is just a hobbie and not who i am], then i can take it and share a laugh about it with the fellow prankster)