Forget about comparisons, path of enlightement

I figured there's no need for slumps and downs, on that path of evolution, with the correct state of mind everything can go smoothly, there's no conflicts in any new relations or ends of relation, all is said calmly, and acknowledged, all opinions and persons are respected, and there's no pain in the heart nor in the mental, the memories aren't bitter but only sweet honey, because the choices are made in complete respect of oneself first and the others then, we can talk openly and without restraints, the word "secret" doesn't exist in the trust of the self and the respect of the other, if all is said there's no misunderstandings, if the questions are asked kindly, if the feelings are disclosed as only belonging to one, the path of enlightement and personal happiness doesn't need clashes, violence and resentment, it simply doesn't create that sort of things because of the compassionate character the person on that very path displays, i'm seeing around me fearful humans, i'm meeting them, they are hiding in their shell when i watch them straight in the eyes, others watch me back for one entire minute without putting their chins down one bit, nor closing their eyelids, self trust and assurance can impress, but with a kind aura, it soothes, it gives substance and presence to the other, it makes him feel recognized as your equal, and every word, every opinion counts, the bad emotions are only polluting those who feel it, corrupting their thoughts, collapsing their bodies, if you choose to trust yourself on that path, nothing can take you down, nothing can touch you negatively, finally positiveness is communicative, the shy ones get sparkles on their face when you question them on their passion, the confident ones smile and debate with you, creating that joyful mood we all seek so painstakingly, when it becomes clear it's very easy just to be yourself in any new situation with any new people around, we don't need rulers, it's also useless wanting to have an impact on others, just being sincere and accepting draw others to you, and that's the path, that's it, trust yourself, read and trust others, you'll see the powerful bond forming by itself, that's what everyone wants, unconsciously inside, and now i'm sure, it works by waving off judgment and negativity, and presenting the confident and raw You.