Always women choose.
But isn't it obvious enough that  the meaning of life isn't in sex, or men will only have a controlled and restrictive access to this somewhat unimportant pleasure designated and advocated by modern cultures and media as the unsurpassed source of happiness.
Implicitely all this only has a profit-making purpose and of petty power, command the masses by this false belief on sex, pushing, compelling men to fool women (to attract them in their arms with empty promises) by making them hope for presents, lasting relationships, and/or material security.
Physical pleasure doesn't embody any power or empower anybody, it is just what it is, stimulation by friction;
Good!;
But that doesn't make the true connection between people.

Well that's why evolution, adaptation is here, because i'm not shaped like a sexual predator to fit in this masquerade (and i don't want it), so i developped and for me pleasure and happiness is elsewhere.