Common people think someone can't love if he doesn't seek to please, that's the biggest mistake of this time, real love is confused with losing oneself in another, oh i can't stop saying this because it's the cause why i'm seen as an egoistical jerk with a heart of stone, which is so untrue.
And truth is that on the contrary real love  is loving someone for oneself, just because the other is what he is and not because he reflects a good image of yourself.
The unconsciousness of this time is so vast and i feel i'm standing alone for real unity, i don't suffer, i'm self sufficient but i hope for humanity that people will understand this is evolution for a better living together in the respect of oneself and others.