"Teaching, learning, (the relationships), can become a dependence for one, and harnessing for the other. How to avoid the risks of emotional, affective, educational "cannibalism"? The risk of harnessing. How to stay different, to know oneself different?
The child, in order to learn, must separate himself from his mother. While he is tightly coiled in her arms, he sees nothing in the world except this sweet fusion, and can only grab on his mother. He needs to see himself different from her in order to learn, and see her different from him.
If I know that I know only when I am with you, if I don't want to know because you know for me, if I only know what you know, I am captured, I'm in the fusion. If it's only in you and by you that I feel i know, that I think i exist, that I feel acknowledged, then I feel, I think, but I don't know."
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