I do everything not to control people when they are with me, allowing everyone to be true, to feel true, so if the communication is satisfying between me and any others it means they are being their real self, because someone who pretends with me won't feel ok as i give only sincerity, without imposing and without controling or letting the other be defined by me, and without letting any grip for the other to change me, in respectful warning, but always focusing on my good feelings to connect with him and get a real attachment based on the emotions that are good to me, by simply telling my truth i suggest to the other to tell me his truth, if he can't do it then the communication will crash inevitably as i will feel unconfortable and communicate that state, i can't express differently than in sincerity.
(Really i try not to cross the barrier of asking back for sincerity to those who can't give it, and make a natural selection to find who i can be fine communicating with, i did that mistake before, i'm learning my lesson and climb more steps into respect of the other, getting closer to those fitting my personality, my values)
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