lundi 23 novembre 2009
Spread the love (not the hate)
If i despise them it's because i despise myself, i put the bad thougths i have against myself in their eyes; I think this is true for everybody, nothing is OBJECTIVE (ethics), we put our own perceptions in all the things we ponder, and if i try to imagine how i look from other's view when i'm outside, then all i see is critics, disdain and indifference; This is true for everyone, clearly, to me. The problems people have with others reflect problems they have with themselves.
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example: I don't like myself when I'm angry, I control my anger and do not let myself express it because I believe anger is a disguise for hurt...so I believe it is wrong to lash out on someone. I despise people who are openly angry, who scream and raise their tone of voice. I hate people who talk loud on public transportation. Clearly, it is probably because that's something I don't do and therefore I judge others harsh if they display behavior that I disapprove of.
RépondreSupprimerThis reminds me of a saying...The people we hate the most are those who resemble ourselves, who have qualities we don't like about ourselves.