M R S

Here's a little story, i was meeting new people, sitting low to the floor around a small table in a tiny appartment, me and my friend we were showing and commenting on the cover of the album by a rock band we saw play recenlty, the general review was very positive and we were seemingly happy to praise that band, then i picked myself the cd, hanged it in the air in front of all of us, i start a line on the logo "M R S" and a girl anticipating my comment speak enthousiastically at the same time i do, the guillotine falls "i think this logo is lame, totally uninventive"... , i watched her playful and said joyfully "you were about to say the contrary eh eh", she assumed as we were so expansive about the band that i was about to speak another compliment, but it's not like that, you see, i know the parts i like and i dislike even in something i greatly enjoy, nothing is perfect, and i'm confident to say what is my truth, even in front of strangers, i'm real like that, and actually as i pointed out that detail on our slight misunderstanding we then laughed together, i allowed myself to be the real me, to criticize even what i like, and still respect the opinion of someone, i would formerly feel embarassed to contradict, but my body language and speaking true and kindly, disarmed any potential conflict of personality, everyone stayed himself and finally felt respected, that's rewarding communication.