When we feel threatened, we can't give, out body and mind are too busy trying to preserve themselves, so we aren't interesting for others, it's a simpl rule but to me, true, and so important for communications between humans, we have to feel trust and confidence to give fully, and only if we are open, that we are able to give, only then people will come to us, which makes sense actually; that's how by fears we isolate ourselves, and the feelings of a person is something everyone can guess, with our animal instincts, it's natural, we can't really hide, the truth of the state of one person is oozing from him and other humans are naturally equiped to detect it, the procesus is simple :
-others want, like us, being understood and heard, they want sharings
-to give to others we have to feel safe
-if we feel tense, in danger our body and mind withdraw on themselves to protect themselves
-so if we want to share, be charismatic to attract others, we have to be confident, because others can feel fears and insecurities, it's the animal instinct we have all
In definitive it's a natural reaction to preserve ourselves that can isolate us from our fellow humans
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