The pain disapears quicker than we think

The pain disapears quicker than we think when it's replaced by hatred.

If you let your emotions overwhelm you, that you become irrational, your pain turns into hatred, or sadness, or anger, or any destructive emotions in the purpose the cope with the feeling on the long run, it's a misplaced rationalisation (because in fact irrational and destructive), on the contrary if you think and believe that it's useless to live in the past, that all the possibilities you can imagine lie before you, to discover anew what you need to be happy, that you are free, then you'll forget easily and will concentrate on the positive there is to take in every instant.