We should not impose to others our conception of the world, it is often the coercion which is the basis of wars and conflicts, even the smallest, among human beings; Everyone possess an interpretation of the world who belongs only to him and has to develop it and respect it, but it's useless wanting to convince somebody that cats are better if he prefers dogs, we can't argue on feelings, we can not impose our feelings to others because everyone feels things differently.
Again we need to respect the Man, the Nature, the Matter, being tolerant, careful to others, but believing that finally what the others feel does not concern us (it's for me because i don't want that my happiness depends on someone else than myself); we should considere but not being abused by the visions of others. With this thought system one cancel the negative feelings toward others, and if one day a positive feeling for someone appear then we must "sit down" and talk with the person concerned (it means sharing sincerely). If this feeling is echoed, it will exalt the two persons for a variable time that will be repeated or not, and I do not consider only the emotions around love, we can be on the same wavelength with someone simply by sharing one of his passions (like the guitar or literature or art or a basketball game) and if the other responds positively both will be galvanized and the mixed emotions will grow and burn for the sharing time period. (and i repeat Not only in "love")
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