A man can go out and be intimate with several girls on a same period of time, he will offer presents to each one, and he will be totally present on a moment with the one he decided to meet that day, then the same with another the next day, giving himself sincerely to the other on a given moment, and he can make that situation last a long time, until he got caught not being exclusive by one of his lovers, men have easily polygamous behaviors without a moral questioning.
A woman will be in one relation at a time, but after a while she will search problems and create conflicts, she will pretend (and accuse the other) and make herself feel bored on the purpose of breaking the relation so she can get into another one, she can be in a series of faithful relations on a short period of time, one at a time.
So which is the most morally acceptable. We say men are sex maniacs and women are bitches, we should all get together very well in the end.
Here is my opinion on this subject: Men and women are different, there is a difference in physiology and psychology (combine that with stereotypical gender roles). There is a stereotypical belief that men think about sex all the time, and so they are struggling to be faithful. There is also a belief that women are fragile beings that want and need exclusivity more than men (probably because women bear children so they have to choose a faithful and wealthy man to support that family system).
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I think men and women are both equal human beings with the same physical and emotional needs. They both want to experience love, passion, desire, lust.
I think some people feel a thrill when they have more than one intimate relation at the same time. It's all a matter of morals. Maybe men don't feel torn as much as women do, because there is that stereotype that forgives me for being unfaithful because they are expected to be like this- while women are considered whores if they do the same behavior.
Personally, I think it's best to be in one close relation. Both partners should feel at ease with each other, trust each other, and communicate their thoughts and feelings to go higher or to go separate ways.