samedi 10 décembre 2011
common mistake from a lack of self love
You push people to love you, desperately, anyone getting close desires you, you make it that way, because you can't love yourself enough so you need their love to give you substance, you give your body, you submit your mind, you do unfathomable compromises, but then you are disapointed, sad, and you reject them, because you realize very few can match you, very few really accept and wish to understand you, that you're not real with them, wearing a mask, putting a false attitude is so tiresome. This is what happens to those who seek acceptance in the others, the correct answer is to find peace in oneself, and all is there, love, acceptance and respect.
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I agree! I was thinking about this yesterday after receiving a letter from a friend. You summarized it nicely. I think it's true, many people are suffering because they don't have enough self love. That is a painful way to be because it puts a person in unhealthy relationships. That makes it difficult for people to stay true to themselves, because they are so dependent on receiving some praise and acceptance from another that they change and adapt to please those others. But it makes us sad, because it's not really acceptance that is gained... but a false one, and a deeper loneliness, a deeper self dissatisfaction, and even less self love when relationships fall apart.
RépondreSupprimerThank you... lumina mea.
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