A human being has to develop in the direction of his natural needs, do not oppress or attach bad emotions to them; A satisfied natural need brings necessarily welfare.
Affection is part of the natural needs as well as eating and drinking.
(We reflect our acts and conceptualize our world but we're still part of the nature, we're still animals, and we have instincts and natural needs. And the way of the nature is right, the nature do the right things for us to survive.)
A human being has a need to be understood (which involves being listened to and acknowledged). I think when a human feels this understanding, the need is met...however, there appears a bond between two persons who shared speaking and listening. And this causes for a need for affection, as this affection serves as another form of acknowledgment and appreciation. Or maybe it is just feelings, emotions that cause this need.
RépondreSupprimerI like the way you phrased it best.
Acknowledgement and understanding are probably not at the basis, a natural need, but are to me strongly related to affection(this is one natural need to me), to desir, and function the same way, the need occurs under the form of an emotion, then when satisfied the human being feels welfare and relief; to explain my point, what causes the need for acknowledgement, understanding, sensuality, sexuality etc is forcibly the natural need of the perennity of our species. (i had a long debate with one of my friend, a 48 years old woman[i note her age and sexe to prove that this reflection is a product of two persons with different mind], and we came to this conclusion); i think you tend to deny this, no offense,please understand me, i think all this functioning is the truth and i share it with you, and yeah maybe you deny it sometimes by too much intellectualism; (if you want next time we chat i'll explain my point)
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