The Conditioning of Emotions

What determines our emotions is our "Conditioning", (different for all individuals), to respond to our environment; This conditioning is active throughout our life by our experiences, our education, our environment (everything that surrounds us and that we can apprehend with our senses, hearing, smell, touch, sight ...) and evidently a bit of genetic as well. All these factors will forge our body responses through chemical reactions and through neurotransmitters (I should find some interest in physiology to see) who therefore react to certain things becoming "triggers"; some will have fear of the dark, others will like girls with hair slide, others will find interest in cars or video games, others will enjoy the rain and hate the sun .... etc

When the need hurts

I am sad and frustrated sometimes because I want things I could never have; in this case one must either rationalize and learn to be content with what he has, or put his energy into getting what he wishes; it is futile to rant, to get excited, to hate the world and harm onself by turning this rage against us. I think the frustration is the basis of the greatest despairs among human beings, whether it is a material frustration, a lack of ability or a need of affection; the absence, the frustration, the need is what predominantly leads people to lose control of themselves in anger or sadness.

The Interaction of the Matter

It is amazing how much people prefer to invent for themself totally outrageous, unfounded, irrational stories to explain things in this world they do not yet understand; And religions are built on such inclination, the human being has fear in the unknown, in what he does not control and rather than understand that there are natural phenomenon in the universe that we are not able to dissect yet, Man prefers to invent a convenient, fast, profitable explanation, but completely devoid of common sense.
Everything has meaning in this world, all of our actions have motivations, all the phenomenons observed in nature are due to reactions between different components of Matter and are rationally explainable, we just do not know all the physical rules of this world; and it's for me obvious that all the interactions between elements at the base of all substances and organisms are perfectly coherent; our world is entirely logical, he is simply shaked through the reactions between various components, either in us or around us. (this is redundant but it is something which I am certain)

Give your Affection to the Present Time!

(Reflection initiated by the Woody Allen film : Vicky Cristina) Two women search their own definition of Love, which leads to disappointments and deceptions for themselves and others, but this quest is endless; Violence and misunderstanding are well the results of love as it is mainly seen today, love can not be exclusive, for me this is impossible because there are too many things in this world that gives us emotions as intense and exquisite, why do we can not all love each others unconditionally; The interactions, the sharings between human beings would be much easier, we just have to focus our interest on the individual, on the person we have in front of us at every moment in our life (that's how I function).
"Love", this word means nothing and this feeling dont match in a box, everyone his own definition but if we started to respect each others, for me that is the Basis of "Love" .
Do not search, simply live it!

The current Human Tragedy

Two values are inexorably in default in these human societies : Solidarity and common sense!

(Collectives Values Must be Humanistic Values!)

Outline of a life philosophy

To act in life one must be logical and possess respectful values regarding all that surrounds us (respect the Matter containing the Nature and Man, respect the Nature which contains Man, respect the Man); To be the most logical possible, to have an unquestionable reasoning, one must strive for absolute Truth, because if one knows exactly how things happened in this universe then nobody can contradict us.

Seeking affection

It seems that women give a lot of importance to the charisma, the aura of a man, that they are looking in a male partner more of a sense of security, of protection; maybe this is instinct, the human condition for the survival of the specie; When men are strongly affected (feelings, excitement, emotions) simply by a constitution, a silhouette and seek mainly ponctual opportunities, at short-term;
Emotions in each of us are due to chemicals reactions in the body, reactions conditioned throughout our life (experiences, education, genetics, environment, etc. ...); Probably a big part of genetics, the human condition, is at stake in this differences between men and women for the search of affection.